I remember this day like it was yesterday. On October 27,2013 my baby came into this world and lit up my life. I am beyond blessed to be his mother and to be able to experience this feeling. But now as we get closer to him turning 3, the big question on “when is the next one coming along?”. I am at an age that its difficult to answer that question. I am 23, turning 24 in August. I want my child to grow up with a brother/sister but at the same time I would like to wait until I have life situated before adding such big responsibility. So When is the right time? At this age I am expected to try and fail at least a couple of times before having it all figured out. But as a mom? I can’t allow myself to fail. Because when I fail, I fail them. Am I supposed to wait until I have it all figured out or am I expecting too much from myself at such an early age?

When is the right time?